Don't you want to be the only love of your life partner? If yes, then I am gonna tell you 5 secret habits you must adopt today to become the best companion for your spouse, whether you are a husband or a wife.
1. Respect your spouse in front of others:
Most couples get confused on how to react to each other in front of their family or friends. Usually, husbands love their wives a lot, bring their favourite things time to time, but when some guests come home or they go to a wedding they start scolding their wives for no reason.
Remember that your wife has a very sensitive heart, all she wants from you is your love and respect for her. If you appreciate her in front of others and give her respect she will love you from the bottom of her heart.
2. Call each other with beautiful names:
Tell me one thing, aren't you proud of the nickname given to you by your parents? Don't you love it more than your real name? Of course you do, and you want to be called by your nickname everytime.
In famous turkish series "Dirillis Ertugral", The hero Ertugral used to call his wife Halima "My deer-eyed" to show his love for her. That is why the couples in dramas love each other very much. If you want to be like them in real life, call your spouse with beautiful names based on personal qualities to make him/her feel proud of your relation.
3. Don't use harsh words for each other:
Quarrelling and fighting between couples is not a bad thing, but not controlling your anger, using harsh words for your husband or wife or taunting at each other is a very bad thing usually couples do. Couples behave very well with each other in normal days but when they are mad at each other they don't care what words they are speaking.
Know that these are bad words that hurt more than any serious physical wound. So take care of your words while talking because your spouse is gonna remmember those words for years. Don't break your partner's heart.
4. Give each other gifts:
To express your love with your spouse you don't need to buy him/her an iphone or any expensive car or a diamond ring on your anniversary. Just appreciate each other's small achievements and give him/her beautiful small gifts to express your precious love for him/her. Try to spend a quality tea time together to make those moments remarkable for your relationship.
5. Play games with each other:
Seems weird? well, games are not only for kids and teens. And being married or being a parent does not mean that you are prohibited to run, jump or play games.
Spend some minutes of your day playing different games with your spouse. Like bedminton, football, cycling, etc. Winning and loosing between you two will refresh you and increase your love for each other.
Conclusion:
For me, the most precious relation on Earth is the relation of a couple. In which you have a sincere companion to celebrate your happiness and grief with. So take of your companion and relation as much as you can, to make this world a heaven for you.
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