Absence Makes Her Attraction Grow
Most of us have heard of supply and demand in economics. Basically, if something is in high demand but low supply (i.e. is scarce or rare), then people will pay a lot for it. This is why things like superyachts, diamond, and gold are so expensive. Conversely, if something is abundant and easily accessible (i.e. not rare and not scarce) then people won’t pay much for it. This is why things like
plastic bags, water, dirt, and the air we breathe are virtually free.
This is the same when it comes to relationships. If you are available 24/7, women will not value you very much. This is one of the problems with nice guys. They are constantly available and thus become the equivalent of a plastic bag or a pile of dirt — very low value. They get taken for granted and are not valued much.
Alternatively, the bad boys and jerks once again seem to get it right, even though they take it to the extreme. They’re busy doing other things, whether that be drinking with mates, working toward a goal, or getting some action with another girl. As a result, they are less available. They take a while to respond to texts because they are doing other things rather than constantly checking their
phone. They’re not available 24/7 for whenever a woman wants to see them.
They are scarce. As a result, women place a higher value on them and their time. They also become more attracted to them. Additionally, during the time that women are ignored by such men, they begin to think about them more frequently and wonder if they are good enough. They begin to eagerly anticipate their next encounter. Likewise, if the guy doesn’t immediately respond to text messages, she begins to think about him more and excitedly awaits his reply.
Overall, his scarcity makes him more valuable.
Nice guys, on the other hand, are not scarce whatsoever. They are available at a moments notice and they respond to text messages immediately, as if he hasnothing else to do other than eagerly await for her to text something to him. He seems to be available every single night and day of the week, and willing to sacrifice other commitments to get so much as a second with her. Likewise, nice guys are willing to do anything for women — help them move, fix their car, go
shopping for them, clean their house, anything!
Their complete lack of scarcity means that they get taken for granted.
Be gold, not dirt. Dirt is abundant and gets taken for granted. Gold is scarce and, for this very reason, highly valuable and deeply desired.
Imagine if gold were everywhere. You could dig in your backyard and five minutes later have three kilograms of gold. Nobody would want gold anymore. The same applies with the way you spend time with women.
Remember: Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
Don’t be available 24/7, don’t be a woman’s slave by helping her do her own chores, and don’t feel the need to always immediately reply to text
messages. Don’t be afraid to go about your own life and ignore her for periods of
time. Let her attraction grow.
thanks.
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