There are certain very important things in order to maintain a good and healthy relationship. And having respect towards each other is not sufficient. You have tob show or exhibit respect towards your partner and that respect can actually ienhance the love and bonding for each other.
There are some certain cases which I would like to cite before you which will actually give you an idea why relationships become toxic or end in due course of time.
Case 1
This is the case of Ravi and Soma. They were friends from high school. They studied in the same college and same stream. And they love each other blindly. But the problem is that since they were young lovers they are constantly in the habit of pulling legs of each other making humurous comments towards each other. This was alright for first few years of their marriage but after some more days, they could not take the leg pulling anymore. This created some sort of insult in their minds and they could not express it to each other as they were friends. Now it became so serios that they started avoiding each other and not even sharing the same bed. And they even had to consult a relationship counselo. That counselor could actually understand the root cause of their issue in marriage. This showing disrespect towards each other AS A as a friend can actually make a relationship suffer.
Case 2
This is the case of Dona and Raman. Dona works in a top company and earns plenty whereas Raman has a small business. They had a love marriage and soon they had a child. Then they bought a flat and a car with Dona being the sole guaranter of the loans. So the majority part of the EMI for both flat and car had to be paid by Dona. Now this created a difference between the couple. And Dona started interfering in every thing that Raman did. Every little money that Raman spent had to be informed to Dona. Even if Raman was going to party with his buddies , Dona would interfere and even join the party to inspect how much money he was spending or how he is enjoying. This actually began to bother Raman and he expressed this feelings to his friends. So this was actually a concern of Dona save money but the case is Dona never answered how much money shwe was spending oin herself and her friends. And Raman never questioned that but since Raman's earning was lower, he had to answer Dona. So this actually created a sort of disturbance in their relationship and a sense of disrespect is the cause.
Case 3
This is the case of Rita and Subir. They married each other for three years and they had an understanding before marriage that Subir would be a house husband and Rita would be the earning head because she cracked a very good company with a high package. And Subir is interested in family and children and household. So Subir was looking after everything at homre most sincerely and it was working fine but the problem arose with Rita. Rita started showing disrespect towards her husband with each passing days because he was not earning. This actually ruined their marietal life eventually.
So you see how different cases bring out the importance of respect in a relationship. Even if you have respect in mind , you have to show and express that through words or through gesture or behaviour. You need to do this proactively and this could actually save many relationship from getting toxic.
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