Most of us have been bruised by life and this is inevitable. Having the scars from the bruises is not bad but in shot term, we need to recover from the wounds and restore our health before venturing into another fray.
If your last/pass relationship left you a bit of an emotional wreck, then better repair the damage before you start looking for a new lover or partner. Otherwise you won't be able to be your true self or even focus on them, because you will be preoccupying yourself.
Entering into another relationship when you are not fully healed of the last bad relationship might cause you to make mistake which you could end up being more bruised the an before. Even when your new partner truly loves and cares for you, you can't give them your best and both of you can suffer because of it just because you weren't ready for that.
Try and be strong before going into that relationship for some men love fragile women who needs looking after, therefore if you are the type that loves being independent and authoritative in nature then don't move now you are weak emotionally because in the long run when u are healed being in that relationship, you will end up destroying it because your man may fall into the category of men who love fragile women.
Do yourself a favour. Go away and hide somewhere while you lick your wounds. Enjoy your family and friends, and wait until you are fully recovered a bit before you start looking for a new partner.
And when healed pick someone whose wounds are also relatively healed too .
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