How to meet a girl in real life

1. Demonstrate confidence and openness
When dating in real life, non-verbal cues can play into your hands. Remember to hold an open pose, make steady (but not excessive) eye contact and smile sincerely. They'll do half the trick: They'll make an unknown person like you.
2. Offer to help
A polite stranger who offers a girl to carry a huge suitcase or explain the way usually arouses her sympathy. But don't confuse being polite with being obtrusive. Usually "no" means "no" after all, and excessive persistence will definitely not add points to you.

3. use any available information about the stranger
Is she riding the subway and reading Dostoyevsky? Or is she wearing a T-shirt with a picture of Darth Vader on it? There's a ready-made topic for the first conversation.

4. Say No to Platitudes
Dating sites and services make you feel like you have a lot of choice. And considering that girls basically get more messages there than men, the latter have to stand out.
The brutal truth is that another "hello, how are you?" does not make you want to answer, and the standard interrogation with a lot of passion discourages you from continuing the conversation.

Be more specific. To get to know each other, use the information that's listed in the girl's profile, or pick an unusual topic of conversation. For example, offer to share crazy stories from life or tell about the most unusual dream. This way you'll get attention, avoid tedious questioning, and melt the ice.
5. And forget the newsletters
Some men, tired of writing hundreds of welcome messages, decide to come up with one: a big, detailed and universal one. That's what they think, at least. In fact, the text, devoid of individual appeal, is immediately visible and generates even less interest.

The advice is simple: decide what kind of woman you are looking for, take the time to select suitable candidates, and write them at least one, but lively phrase. Repeat the process if necessary. As the saying goes, seek and find.