Some adults think that in this plan we should be more demanding. We have more experience and we know more about how children should live, but this is not always the case. Here are a few things you cannot make us do in any case:Bullshit
You can not lie in any way, even if you are a child. The child should not be accustomed to lying as something normal. Do not force your child to tell others that you are not at home, or you are ill. These very insignificant situations can have a devastating effect on her outlook and in the future, you may become a victim of lies.
When your child is not hungry
We all remember how our fathers always forced us to eat in large portions when we were children. They always said that they knew our needs better, but this is not true. Indeed, the human body even at a young age signals hunger and trouble, which must learn to recognize. Worth telling the child how to do it and how to react. The ability to eat properly must be instilled from the very beginning. To be what your child is not
If your child is quiet and moody, you have to put up with it. Do not constantly complain that it is a big problem and force them to be active and friendly. When the child is comfortable, it is necessary to accept it. The same applies to cheerful and merry children who like to run around and play. Do not break your child, because their character.
Sorry for it is not clear why.
Often in playgrounds mothers ask for forgiveness from their children, though they do not even know why they apologize. In the future, children simply do not know the value of the word "forgiveness". You must explain to your child when and for what it is worth to apologize and why it is necessary in general.
Talking to strangers
In general, interacting with strangers is not the best idea for a child. In today's world, it is better to teach your child not to take any tzukerok from strangers or talk to them without a father.
Be friends with someone they do not like
Your children and your girlfriend's children do not have to be friends. These are separate individuals, with different characters and interests. Do not force your child to endure oppression simply because you do not want to have intercourse with his parents. Accept the fact that your children may have other friends.
Shallowly change their habits
In childhood, these habits are extremely large. For example, to sleep in a separate bed or to refuse a blanket. The child has to mature to all of these things and the changes must be gradual. Put your child on a daily diet, make them fast or punish them with food
Do not turn food into a reward or punishment. If you want your child to avoid eating any tawdry foods, you should simply not buy them. If you don't have them at home, you won't get into any trouble. Just explain how can biscuits and carbonated drinks influence the organism.
Sleeping where your child is uncomfortable
If your child does not like to sleep at his or her grandmother's house, do not force him or her. In an unfamiliar, uncomfortable place she will feel abandoned and self-sufficient. This can even disturb your sleep. If you need free time, you can ask grandma to come home. This way the child will be busy, but will feel comfort and protection.
Do what the child does poorly.
Of course, it is necessary to teach the child never to give up, but if you noticed that for a month of training, malyuk still can not ride on the mats, it is worth to impede in the idea. Allow the child to independently choose the activity and do what she likes the most.
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