Can we really say that a person loves someone if that person commits suicide because of loving the person so much? Is it an acceptable reason to end one's life? Why do the world sees this as a sacrificial love? Where in fact, it is losing one's precious life?
If you were to be asked, is it love? How come it is called love? When love is a great word, that could heal the world, why do a lot of people killing one another for the sake of love. What I mean by this is, people being out of control and hurting each other's partners because of jealousy, and ended up actually killing the other. It is so sad to think that the world we supposed to live safely, is now a place for all the wrong definitions of love.
Love? It is something were we learn to grow, to heal our past traumas, to forgive, to understand, to be kind, to be gentle, to be happy. Most of the people I see, thinks that if they love someone and they're in relationship with them, they own the person making them live without a freedom and controlling tjrm, and yet they still call it love? Isn't it too suffocating? Love is not actually owning a person, love is giving the person the freedom to spread her wings and know herself better and grow.
Love is a very powerful word, it can revive even a dead person, but in a sense that it can also kill a living person. Sometimes people really don't understand when they say they love someone, they didn't know that the love they think of, traps the person and killing them softly from the inside. When people where becoming too controlling of their love ones, it shouldn't be called love anymore, it is obsession and let's be careful, let us pause and reflect what do we really feel and show on that person, mostly we are blinded by the things we believed.
In today's generation we can see a lot of couple living in a worst definition of love. Come to think of a couple still living together though the woman is always beaten, because of her partners nonsense jealousy. The usual reason would be he was just jealous and jealousy is part of love. But beating is not and will never be a form of love.
If in a relationship you don't feel safe physically, mentally, emotionally, socially, then dear you, its time for you to walk away and open your eyes in the wildest truth that, that person doesn't love you. You deserved more, and you are worth to be love, a love that is gentle with you.
And love is not something we could just give to someone, without loving our self first. Loves always begins in us.
So learn to understand that love is not just a word but its an action that could help you blossom like a flower. Know the difference.
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