Top 3 ways on how not to let a relationship distract you from reaching your goals

1. Time 

Being in a relationship needs a person who is really committed....and commitment goes with investing time...for example you'll have to spend some time with your partner and sometimes you'll end up spending more time than you planned because you'll be so in love with that person and sometimes find that you always want to be with that person.....this will lead you to spending less time on your careers, studies and your hustlings ....and also on top of that your goals ....cause the more you invest more time in a person the more you move away from your goals.....so it is better to manage your time or seek help on how to manage your time

2. Set rules on that relationship

Any partner that loves you will understand if you set rules .....and that is going to benefit the both of you .... because you're both going to have enough time to focus on your lives ....for example your goals 

Rules can also help you avoid disturbing each other while you're both busy .....rules that are more useful are: setting a date when you are both free so you can see each other and also times you can text each other

3. Avoid daydreaming and flashbacks

These two are so tricky ....and they are the ones teenagers complain about.... daydreaming can really take more of your time without you noticing....you can almost spend an hour daydreaming of things you wish to do with your partner.....and flashbacks can get you off the mood to study....they have a way to make you lazy and you'll end just sitting down and relaxing and let them flow ....but there are ways you can avoid flashbacks.... once you start getting the hurry up and distract yourself with something else....maybe a funny video or watch show ....I really much advise watching cartoons...and also avoid listen to music....music support flashbacks most of the time..