What repels women from men

Almost every man considers himself an ideal lover, who has no problems with the opposite sex, and is convinced that women should seek his recognition, and not the other way around. This is all the result of a big ego and a tendency toward narcissism.

In fact, however, many guys have problems contacting girls. Not only Internet forums, where many try to find answers to their problems, but also various schools teaching seduction are excellent proof of this. Meanwhile, relationships with women can be improved in a very simple way. Find out what repels women from men, and get rid of some bad habits, if you have any.

Let's start with your physical appearance.

A big belly.

Most girls will not even look at a guy with a beer belly, which they associate with "sweaty old man, avid fan of kebabs, beer and burgers. We have a lot of young people in their 30s who have belly folds and don't think it's a problem. Just look at their peers from Germany, Holland, Italy, France... who look like young gods.

Remember, a big belly is not a sign of a successful life, but of an unhealthy lifestyle.

2. Yellow teeth and a toothless smile.

A smile is one of the most important things that creates a first impression. If a guy looks like a relative of Gargamel (a character from a cartoon series), who has every other tooth with decay or missing, and his remaining teeth are covered with yellow plaque, it's better not to count on a second meeting with a girl. It will take place only if the girl has a similar appearance, is drunk or blind.

There's not even anything to comment on here. The basics of hygiene are known to everyone + regular visits to the dentist.

3. Long dirty nails.

A farmer digging in the ground, a mechanic working in a car service, or a hiker roaming the woods, having dirty fingernails is understandable. But a man in a suit or a stylish guy with untidy nails is disgusting!

You don't have to get a manicure in a salon, just trim your nails and rub moisturizer into your hands if you're lucky enough to touch her body.

A guy with dirty hands.

4. Unkept skin.

Purulent pimples, blackheads, scabs - all these things make a man look ungroomed and repulsive.

It is clear that acne is a disease, but it can be treated. Especially if you're long past your teenage years.

5. Greasy hair.

There's nothing more disgusting than the greasy smell coming from dirty, greasy hair. And especially if that dirty hair is long. Men sweat twice as much as women, so untidy hair smells not only of grease, but also of sweat.

If you want to look like Johnny Depp, take care to keep your head and hair clean. For example, for Americans, washing their heads is as frequent as brushing their teeth, but in our minds there is a belief that frequent washing is unnecessary. A well-groomed man smells clean and so does his hair.

A man with long hair

6. Unkept stubble.

A man should be determined on this point. Either wear a beard and mustache like the sexiest lumberjack, or shave to nothing. The goatee and mustache come from GDR-era adult films.

The alternative is a three-day stubble, but with the care of a trimmer.

7. What repels women from men - no comment.

The smell of sweat and dirty socks;

dirty ears;

hair on back and chest;

stale breath;

crumpled and dirty clothes;

stooped, uncleaned shoes; white socks and sandals;

neglected heels;

spitting and public scratching of balls;

urinating in public places;

addiction to alcohol and drugs.

Moving on to relationships.

1. Compulsiveness.

Men tend to lose their common sense when they start dating girls. They become obsessive and very annoying. An example is texting. If a girl doesn't reply to a message within 20 minutes, most guys send the following...

With this behavior you can alienate the girl. After all, it's not her job to text back instantly. Especially if she's busy. It's worth cooling your ardor and being patient.

2. Sexual Impatience.

The examples of insistence don't end there. Men like to push a woman in terms of sex. The best option is for a new acquaintance to get rid of her underwear by the 10th minute of the first date.

Patience and tact is the key to success. Wait until the relationship moves to another level. Insolence will only alienate the girl, and the relationship may end without starting.

Unflattering remarks about the girl's friends.

Each person has his own circle of close people with whom he has experienced a lot. So you should not speak negatively about anyone without good reason.

This is a very sensitive subject, which can turn against you. You won't be happy, either, if the girl starts talking about your friends.

4. Sense of possessiveness.

When starting a relationship with a woman, a man begins to think of her as property. He, of course, knows better how she should dress - some want as much naked body as possible, others, on the contrary, become jealous and want to see their girlfriend in "nun" clothes. As you can guess, women don't like this kind of treatment.

Remember how you liked her when you first met her, and do not try to turn her into a different person - it will not work. A sultry beauty will never become a "blue stocking.

5. Indecent behavior.

Many men are so proud of their "booty" that they want to brag about it to the whole world. Not every girl likes hugs and frequent kisses in public places. Especially if the relationship is just beginning and there is no deep connection between the partners.

Be delicate and considerate in public, there are more intimate places for passions.

A guy kissing a girl under a bridge

6. Lack of ambition.

Women are especially repulsed by men who have no ambition. Men who set goals in life and strive to achieve them are definitely more attractive in the eyes of the fair sex. And men who are indifferent to everything, they say a categorical "no"!

Interest a girl. Tell her about your life plans, hobbies, how you see yourself in 10-20 years and what you are doing for this, but do not be unsubstantiated.

7. Appearance Criticism.

A woman is a very touchy creature. She expects her partner to love her no matter what. Women especially don't like it when their appearance is criticized. No one wants to hear - "you're fat in those jeans." A common response to such a replica - "I and so will love.

Believe me, the woman herself knows that she has gained weight and does not look the same as before. The last thing she needs is a reminder about it. Better offer her a joint training, healthy diet, shield her from unnecessary stress.

8. Attention to other women.

It's okay to notice pretty girls. But it's very disrespectful to do so in the company of your partner. Not to mention flirting!

If your eye accidentally catches "something," say that you mistook the girl for an old acquaintance. The main thing is that it was not systematic. The woman will not tolerate competition, and on occasion she may take revenge (and there are different cases).

A girl in a bikini on the beach

9. Violent physical contact.

Men often think that playfully grabbing a woman's breasts or snuggling up to her at every opportunity is the norm. This is all done with the best of intentions, but is often met with a very cold and irritable response.

Men and women feel intimacy differently. Men, when in a relationship, enjoy physical contact, while women enjoy emotional contact. Instead of slapping and roughly grabbing, give your beloved a hug and a kiss. Trust me, in this case she will respond with affection.

10. Sexual promiscuity.

They say about such men - "he picks up everything that moves. A woman in this regard, as well as a man, is very squeamish. Knowing the great "track record" of his chosen one, she unwittingly will consider herself one of many. And she wants to be the only and unique.

Even if you have too much sexual experience, make sure that your chosen one never knew about it.

11 What repels women from men - no comment.

Boorish behavior and foul language - mate to connect words;

bravado;

shyness, infantilism and cowardice;

cruelty and disrespect for women;

explicit chauvinism and sexism.

The list of things that repel women from men, of course, is not short. But you, too, probably, do not look for easy ways, and the easy prey you are not interested. If all of the above does not concern you, please accept our congratulations - success awaits you!