7 Qualities Independent and Strong Girls Look For In Their Partners (Don't get me wrong)

7 Qualities Independent and Strong Girls Look For In Their Partners (Don't get me wrong,)

If you are an independent and strong type of girl, maybe you often experience failure in love affairs. Though the matter of study, career, and business, all in your hands! Well, maybe you've been looking for the wrong guy. Indeed, for those of you who are used to taking care of yourself and have a steel mentality, it is not easy to find a partner who can accept you as you are. The reason is, many men feel intimidated by your determination and independence. But don't worry, guys like that don't deserve you either. You, the independent and strong girl, deserve a man who can accompany you, not lead you. Then what kind of man can accompany you? Here Popbela will share seven qualities that your potential partner must possess in the future. Pay attention.

 

1. Has its own goals and ideals

 

It is very important for you and your partner to have the same ambitions and ideals. Otherwise, he won't understand why you woke up at 4am to finish your report or why you suddenly canceled your date. He will actually be annoyed every time you prefer to prioritize your work over him. But if he also has a dream he wants to achieve, he will fight with you to make it come true.

 

2. Respect your privacy

 

Independent women are not used to spit out their personal problems. He always tries to solve his own problems. Well, find a boyfriend who can appreciate your habit. It might be hard at first, but if he really loves you, he'll get used to it later.

 

3. Not possessive or jealous

If many women think that jealousy is a cute sign of love, you who are independent and strong don't think this way. You will actually feel offended when he harbors jealousy or suspicion. You like freedom, but you are also responsible enough not to abuse the freedom that your partner gives you.

 

4. Stable emotions

If you want it to last, look for a partner who is emotionally stable. That is, he can act mature and not too much drama.

 

5. Be confident

 

You will rarely ask for his help, but he doesn't need to feel insecure and wants to prove his masculinity in front of you, for example by dropping you off and picking you up everywhere. Many men feel inferior if their boyfriend is too independent, but this isn't the kind of guy you should be looking for, Bela.

 

6. Clear communication

Guys who talk in circles and unspoken will only drain your energy. So, pay attention to whether your crush can express his point clearly without having to beat around the bush. Anyway, he must be open and honest when communicating with you.

 

7. Can make decisions

Even though you often have to make decisions, sometimes it's nice when you don't have to think hard to decide something. Well, guys who always answer, "It's up to you," when asked where to meet or eat will only waste your time. You also can't tolerate a fickle guy.

 

Well, those are seven qualities that must be possessed by men who want to approach you, an independent and strong girl. Does your crush have these qualities yet. Make sure first, okay?