On Earth, marriage is the second cycle of life that everyone has the plan to get in it one day. Serious relationships are not always emotionally driven but mentally driven. The latter stands on the perspective that, there is a missing link somewhere and such, a help mite is needed to fill in the gap. Relationships that are emotionally driven last just for a moment and vaporize with time.
Some relationships counsellors, guidance and mentors reviewed that, two sets of personalities of the opposite sex have been identified in some relationships; introverts and extroverts. Such two sets of personalities were found in the course of finding out while some couples who dearly love each other still find it difficult in building the best sustainable relationship and good marriage life. How does it feels like when you get married to someone who finds it difficult to dedicate his/her time so that you can all sit together in the sitting room, watch television together, laugh, have some fun and have some serious discussion session? She is either somewhere, doing nothing or doing something. You have to call and persuade him or her so that you people can sit together.
What are the differences between an introvert and an Extrovert?
An introvert is a person who desires to spend more of his/her time personally rather than socializing and relaxing with others. An introvert has a thoughtful inward behaviour where he/she finds much of his/her pleasure and happiness when he/she is alone than when he is with someone or with a group of people. On the other hand, an extrovert is contrary to an introvert. An introvert is more socially, friendly, and with a high degree of companionship.
Should an Introvert and an Extrovert get Marry?
A good marriage is built on the bond of companionship and comfort. This means marriage is for extroverts and not those with introverted mindsets. Since, it’s difficult to know, who your perfect partner might be, if you are an introvert, you must learn and understand that providing suitable comfort and companionship is a key requirement in all marriages that make some relationships sustainable and enjoyable. If you are in a relationship, courtship, or dating hoping to be married one day, and you found out that your partner is an introvert who is weak in the area of providing comfort and companionship, there are two options to present to such an introvert. Either he/she is ready to change or two of you cannot be joined together. If you’ve ever heard someone saying “he got married to the wrong person” you will understand it better. The love of your life can one day becomes the wrong person when you will discover that she has an adamant introverted character that lacks comfort and companionship. If you think you can adapt, go ahead and marry whoever you love. But comfort and companionship are necessary for all marriages and introverts are not good in these two. Make sure to check out this natural trait to know the perfect spouse with who you will spend the rest of your life.
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