Man is a social animal. He cannot live his whole life alone, he needs family, friends, relatives in his life. There comes a stage in life when we need a true friend, who stands by us like a strong support by holding our hand at every turn of life, supporting us with complete devotion in our every happiness and sorrow. I think a beautiful way to get such a true partner is ------ marriage
Marriage is a small word of few letters. But whether it is there or not, the meaning of life changes. In just one day/night the whole life of a human being changes. Meanings of life change, relationships, needs all change.
In our society, marriage is seen as a sacred bond and in fact marriage is a sacred bond too, where we adopt our spouse, spouse wholeheartedly, with his/her strengths and weaknesses. The easiest and best way to maintain the sweetness of this relationship for life is to be completely honest with your spouse.We never know when an unknown person becomes so special to us. This beautiful relationship is of love which is known as marriage. Marriage is such a lovely and such a beautiful relationship because through it two hearts become one. Their joys and sorrows are intertwined with each other. One is happy and the other is also happy, the other is sad and the first is also sad.
Husband and wife are seen as two wheels of the train of life. To run this train properly on the track, it is necessary that both the wheels should run in the right coordination at the same speed and play each other with honesty, truthfulness and loyalty at every stage of life.It may take us time to understand and adopt the sudden change in life after marriage, but these moments are very precious moments of our life. A stranger becomes so special in our life with whom we share every moment of our life. It is a sweet feeling to share your room, bed, wardrobe, happiness and sorrow with him. We love to share all our sorrows and joys with him.We like to make him laugh and smile at our words. It feels so good when he takes care of us when we are sick. There is hardly any relation better than the relationship of husband and wife. Dreaming of future life, thinking of children's names, getting angry with each other become the sweetest moments of our life. Due to its presence, we feel happy and our mind becomes sad due to its absence.
Obviously a lot of changes take place in a person's life after marriage. Sometimes he has to fulfill the needs of his partner while ignoring his own needs. It is sometimes not easy to accept these changes with ease. Due to which people start seeing this sacred bond as a problem instead of looking at it as a sweet relationship. But it is worth noting that due to bitterness or bad relationship in relationships, somewhere we are there. We are unable to understand our duty towards our partner, their aspirations, expectations, this is the reason for the deterioration of relationships.
We need to understand that marriage is not the problem and neither is the husband/wife the problem. All these are important parts of our life and we should live this part with truth, honesty and whole heart and respect this sacred relationship.It becomes our responsibility to treat this sweet, loving relationship truthfully, respect it and uphold its dignity.
-by Storyteller Shreya
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