Being a teenager was a once in a lifetime moment for us all. Some of us may have gone through it earlier or shorter, and some might have longer time being in this state than the rest of their peers does. Being a teen itself was when you slowly transitioned from once a child to an adult. This brings changes not only to our hormonal structure, but also emotional changes.

When we were children we generally only see the world in such a simple view. While some might be able to think more logically mature or have more awareness than most of us, it still does not hinder the fact than childrens were very curious beings. They'll hear and observe everything in their surroundings and obtain knowledge from them. They will ask questions because they want to know, want to understand more.

When we first enters the age of teen, we were confused about the changes. We tried to adapt to the changes. Our views of the world will become different than when we were a kid, the changes sometimes feel so sudden that we cannot accept it. Subconsciously we want to retract from it, want it to go back to where it supposed to be. Yet as the world changes, we cannot help but move along with them.

That can lead to an emotional break, sometimes we may get angered so easily but, on other times, will have the patience to dealt with everything calmly. The mind process of a teen was contradictory and could be very difficult to predict.

Environment also proves to be a great big factor to our growth. A supporting parents and relatives could make you have a sense of security when making your own choices. Cause you know that they will respect your choice and didn't forced you with their hope and wishes.

Being a supporting parent doesn't mean that they will agree to everything you choose. If they disagree with your opinion, it's better if they went out to explain why they think so instead of saying 'its not good' or 'its bad for you'. We need real actual reasons that doesn't seems like excuses. Those will actually make us more daring and reckless to try it. We won't think what we're doing was wrong until someone pointed it out. Parents are often the first factor to a teenagers emotional changes.

The other like friends or relatives also affect us to a point. Most of our time as student spent is school and studying. And maybe some lived in school rather than at home.

Friends at this age tends to get along quickly, but also quarreled over some little things. Teens at this age usually more open to their friends rather than family. As teens, we wanted friends who at least can listen to our story, our problems without having them interfere with personal problems.

Because for teenager's, what they wanted most was to be listened, not being a listener.