\In my community, we have strong relationship among all the residents in our town.we share many interests and activities.we are also good friends of each other.in fact, everyone knows who I am because they see me many times every day; as it is the case with any other person in this world. I always feel honored to be associated with them. Our friendship has been growing over the years since we became friends because we all share some common interests.when people come across a unique trait of mine or someone else that they cannot help but get excited about, they always ask us if they can share their views with us so that we could learn from them so that we could bring out our full potential and live our dreams. As such, I find it difficult to go against their wishes.this has made me believe in myself and never give up hope on what I want to achieve in life.
My relationship with my best friend is strong and strong. We have had many meetings and discussions on many issues.many people have given us advice on how to handle them. However, after listening to the advice I have received, I have decided not to follow anyone’s advice and instead of following it, I prefer to listen to my heart and follow my dream instead. When I was seven years old, I lost my mother to cancer complications. At that time, I had a lot of problems in my family. Many people died in my neighborhood.some died because their hearts were affected by cancer like my mother’s.others died due to accidents in the streets like my father.
My mother died when I lost her at such a tender age. She would have loved us especially she used to cry during the bad days.this made me happy and relieved of all the troubles that happened to her because she was dying at such an early age. Unfortunately, I did not know how to console my mother therefore I resorted to praying whenever I felt depressed and helpless. I prayed many prayers in my church that my mother would be well soon. However, her prayer went unanswered. One day, a woman came to pray for her just the same way I was praying in church. I knew that this lady had something bad planned in front of her but I prayed hard only to please God and hope that he would intervene before I could even think of anything wrong. I prayed hard that night while I was sleeping that God would listen to my plea. The next morning, my mother woke up after half an hour.she hugged me and told me that she had finally recovered from her illness. In my joy, I prayed for God to help her get better so that I could go and visit her again but I saw no improvement. It seemed that she had left the hospital. My heart stopped beating because now I thought that God had taken my mother to heaven. This made me frustrated and upset that I could not even talk to my mother. I did everything possible, pray and seek help but still I could not cure my mother.
I tried going to church only to pray for the sick who were suffering from cancer. After visiting my mother for hours, I realized that if I went to see my mother and I could not speak to her by talking to her one last time, I would have no one to comfort myself. Therefore it was not worth going to church or to pray for my mother in order to heal her.so later I could not do these things that I love. I also decided not to visit my parents anymore because they got too cold and I wanted them to warm up so that I could talk to them.
My best friend and I shared similar experiences when I was younger; my mother suffered in pain and died of cancer. I used to cry every day when I saw my mother in pain. I also cried for years when I heard news that my brother passed away. I was very lonely then and did not even go visit my brothers.he was my first best friend and he used to invite me to his house anytime.when I was not there, I always felt sad for him.this reminded me that my best friend was my brother and that everyone was sad when I lost my brother. So I decided not to go visit him any longer. I knew that he did not like me but I did not care about it.I preferred crying over him.so when I lost my brother, I made sure that I cared less about him.
In spite of this, the best friend still loved me. I will always remember our conversations because we have the same opinions on almost all issues. I will always treasure those conversations because they have taught me to respect and trust people of others.as such, I will always keep on fighting with my friend until she gives me her freedom.he has been always helping me whenever I need him.my friend is like a sister to me and I love him as much as I love her. He used to say that his friend should not call him without their permission. I appreciate his words because I understand that he is the most important person in my life.
My relationships with my mother were difficult and challenging. Her death was painful to me. I used to talk to my mother and I used to tell her all the troubles that I had,that everyone in my locality was mourning at the loss of my mother. People always used to look for my mother and sometimes take her to the hospital and ask questions about the death of her.in my mind, I used to believe that it was easy for her to go to the hospital and die of cancer since everyone was worried about the health of her.in fact, I did not know that I was looking forward to die of cancer just due to my mother’s sickness, my brother’s death and my grandmother’s loss.
Unfortunately, all these events caused me to suffer from depression and mental disorders. I used to cry every day when I saw my mother in pain. I also suffered from depression during the worst part of my life when my brother’s death took place. My mental problems started when i tried to go to the doctor. They informed me that my brother had died but they did not tell me about his death. I went to the clinic to find out more about my brother’s death. But even though the clinic gave me some information about my brother’s death, I still did not know what to believe.my depression became worse after seeing my brother’s death when many people around me died of cancer in my area.
My friend used to play a big role in making my life easier. His presence was never felt to be away from my side. I was able to meet other people and share my thoughts with them. he helped me a great deal while I was at school. He also encouraged my friends to talk to me when they had problems and encouraged them to go to consult doctors for help as well. My friends were also very caring and understanding to take care of me whenever I needed somebody. For example, my friend used to take care of all the homework that I was doing,even though I did not like to do it.
In addition, he is a very generous man and always shares money with me when I need some extra money. For instance, he used to send me $700 when I borrowed some money from work. On my days when I was very little, he bought me clothes for me. When my mother and I were in a poor financial state, he tried to use money wisely so that we could have a home. I have known him for over 15 years now and I still enjoy spending my vacations with him every year. I used to travel to Canada and spend more time with him because of his character and generosity.
My friendship with my friend is quite strong. Whenever I see him, I always smile because we have the same opinions and we used to communicate with each other very easily on many different issues. I have also seen him at least six times a week and I always feel honored to be with him. I always remember his birthday celebration. As of today, I do not remember my birthday that it has come so long.so this makes me thankful and glad to have known him for so long. So now I feel happy of being a part of a family that has grown so far and proud to know that I have a sibling in it that can help me support my dreams.
In conclusion, I have learned lots of lessons from my friends and most importantly, from my life because I have also become an inspiration. I thank Allah Almighty for keeping me alive. This has enabled me to fight all kinds of diseases that plague the world and lead a healthier life and improve the lives of others. Thank you for keeping me alive and for allowing me to overcome the difficulties that I faced in life. Allah blesses me.
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