The common personality traits of persons found in every relationship are introverts and extroverts. These are natural traits that some people were born with, which seem to manifest unto adulthood and old age. Some evidence shows that, when it comes to building a relationship and a marriage life, a lot of people don’t care to check whether someone is an introvert or an extrovert and how it is going to affect their relationship.
An American young marriage counsellor, a man who started his counselling ministry by experience just a few years when he got married said, “he and her newly wedded wife were always separated from each other, why was his wife not close to him as he wish? Only to discover that her wife was an introvert while he was an extrovert”. If you wish to know some of the character traits of an introvert, read this article.
What are some of the Five things Every introvert must Avoid in a relationship?
1)Avoid keeping your Spouse Lonely for too long because you think you can be alone. You were made a companion to your spouse the day you all agreed to be united. How then are you still living as a single, yet, thinking there is nothing wrong with that. You are silently destroying your relationship without knowing.
2)Stop thinking you have a self to focus on without minding what your partner feels: The two shall become one. If you dedicate more time to giving attention to yourself forgetting what your partner feels, he will one day leave you alone.
3)Make use of comfort when necessary: Comfort is a key aspect that binds a relationship. It makes the husband or wife feel relieved that he/she is not alone. It gives hope and wipes away tears and sorrow. In a relationship when comfort is lacking. Many couples don’t enjoy their union.
4)Don’t over feel to doing it alone, consider doing it together: You just wish to go to the market alone, go shopping alone, go to the farm alone, and relax alone. Suddenly, since you are not proud walking and doing things together with your partner, he will possibly look for a side chick.
5)Don’t be introverted with your body: Don't start speaking and acting like a ghost; don't touch me, don’t hold me, must you touch me? Who ask you to get married in the first place? Let your spouse enjoy your body anytime. You sold it to him or her through a union.
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