When newlyweds first start their married life, they hardly ever get out of bed. The passion is so strong that the newly married couple lives only by love, breathing in each other and wearing rose-colored glasses. But when married life fully enters into its rights, and the flor of infatuation passes, there comes a crisis of intimacy.
When spouses live side by side for several years, their feelings lose the former tenderness, and passion gradually fades. This is a very understandable phenomenon. We get used to good things, including good sex. Sex becomes a real marital obligation rather than a pleasant pastime.
In men, the problem of loss of passion is more pronounced. A man is unable to simulate passion and desire. An erection is either there or it is not. There is no third option. And it's not about sexual dysfunction. The man just bored marital sex and he can not do anything about his coldness in bed.
Naturally, the wife just have to help her beloved man to return the former spark in their relationship. How to ignite a passion of her husband? There are three effective tips.
1. Down with threadbare robes and stretchy sweaters. Even in the kitchen, a woman should remain a woman. The husband should see that for his wife wears a beautiful lace gown and goes to cook his favorite borscht with meat. That only for him she should look her best. A man senses the dignity of his attitude and will try to please his woman, too.
2. Add jealousy to the relationship. A man must understand that you are not a conquered trophy, but an elusive gift of fate. Sometimes married men are stingy with compliments and gifts (including in bed). They mistakenly think that their wife is not going anywhere from them, so there is no need to try. Shake a little slack man. Brag that you were complimented at work, drove you home. Let it be untrue. What's the difference. The main thing is that her husband will stop stingy on feelings and will again prove to you his love, because the golden woman and can steal.
3. Experiment in bed. Men are bored boring marital sex, when all the movements and moans can be calculated within a second. Add spice to the ordinary intimacy. The degree of spice define yourself. Someone will be turned on and lace stockings, and someone will have to offer a completely updated sex menu. Ask what fantasy wants to fulfill your spouse. Ask what excites him and what kills passion. Think not only about your beloved, but also about your partner's pleasure. Update the interior of your bedroom. Entourage affects passion. Remove polka-dot sheets, replacing them with scarlet colored linens. Try to turn your bedroom into an altar of love. It will not cost too much, all you need is your desire.
In order to rekindle your husband's passion, you do not need to exert much effort. It is enough just to step out of your usual comfort zone and think not only about your own pleasure, but also about the pleasure of your beloved and only man. Sometimes women can be selfish in relationships. They want to be pampered and loved, but the man does not feel any return. Therefore, comes the intimate crisis, which promises a cold bed and dissatisfaction. So should you put your ego above your other half? Perhaps it is necessary to think not as a mere consumer of love and affection, but as an equal participant in the family relationship. The more love and warmth we give, the more we get in return. This is one of the golden rules of family life.
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